Day 113, week 18

Amazing what can change in just two days.  My world has literally been turned upside down in just 2 days...It's surreal and a bit of an involved story.  I'll try to reader's digest it for you.

I told 2 people I trust at work about my diet.  C and J .  J has always had knee problems and she is morbid obese.  Hubby gave her an injection of cortisone.  He also went to her house to change some bandages when she came home from the ER after a nasty fall.  J LOVES hubby ...always says he's a keeper.  There is a toxic lady at my work who absolutely HATES me...I don't know why...honestly I don't really care, she's sick in the head this I know.

J fell at home almost 2 months ago...this time she was not found for 2 days, she had gone septic and her kidney and liver were shutting down.  Off to the ER where she stayed for a while.  Then she was improving so they sent her to a skilled rehab facility.  Hubby and I visited her.  She told our friend she had a bed sore and when we got there she asked John to change the bandage, he did.  He made some adjustments to the bed, spoke to the nursing staff, got a phone in the room...that's why J loves hubby.  When he changed the bandage I asked if she wanted me and our her/my other friend to leave the room...She adamantly said no.  We stayed and what I saw brought tears to my eyes...a DEEP wound at the small of her back and down the top part of her butt 5 inches tall and 12 inches wide.

When I got to the car I asked hubbyabout it.  He said he never saw someone with one that big live.

Then life got busy.  I called to check on J and she seemed to be okay.  She had visitors.  M the toxic person who hates me was visiting and feeding her cats.  One day I get a call from J.  "Can you come to the hospital?"  I was on the way to class.  "Why are you at the hospital?"  She answered "Its a long story can Hubby come?"  I called Hubby...he couldn't go, but he called.  She told him the rehab center was trying to kill her and that she called 911.  They took her to the hospital.  My friend asks me how J is doing...I say I'm not sure she was doing okay last I saw her.  She just needs to make sure the bed sore doesn't get infected.   A few days later she was released to a different rehab center in El Cajon.  That's when I lost contact.  The phone had issues...I didn't know where to go.  Last week I learn she's back at the hospital.  I plan to see her.  Toxic M has been seeing her everyday.  Yesterday my friend who was asking about her says she has 2 hours to live!  I leave work.  As I'm driving she my friends says I'm here and you should know they think your husband took a picture of the bedsore and he's showing it to everyone at the college.  I said who thinks that?  J and her brother.  I get there and its tense the brother is looking at me funny.  J is okay and glad to see me.  She asks about hubby and I say he's working...he texts and I tell him I'm at the hospital.  He comes and its tense, but J is glad to see him.  The brother is really talking up hubby.  Hubby gets the brother and his wife recliners to sleep in because J could make it thru the night.  He helps the brother understand what all the things on J's wrist are and has the nurse cut off some of the restricting ones.  As we are leaving the brother says "Thank you...you have been really helpful..you might be getting a call...in J's haze she told the me and the doctor that there were rumors at the college, do you know anything about Rumors?  Hubby says no.  Brother then says well the doctor asked who was spreading those rumors and she named Hubby!  We left devastated.  Hubby loves J and the fact that she's dying and thinking that hurt!  But worse...That is a violation of HIPPA...he most likely could be fired!

We didn't sleep.  I stayed strong, but when I got to work I cried and cried.  I told the friend that called about the accusation as I was on my way there and she said.  J didn't think that on her own...Toxic M told her that your husband went in the chart and then told me what the bed sore looked like.  I said I don't understand....a woman is sick in the hospital and you go there and tell her that her friends who care for her and help her are doing these awful things behind her back!?  How does that help someone get better!?  The friend says she will talk to the brother.  I said no...the names been given the investigation is a go there is no point.  The strange thing hubby could lose his job, but we are both so relieved that this didn't come from J and she doesn't think that hubby and I did this!  I would hate for her to die thinking that.  Hubby was so relieved, but he hates Toxic M.  I'm on my way to see her.  I will stay with her until my class.  It's such a sad situation.